Sex Positions For Fantastic Sex
The images in popular culture can make us all feel inadequate when it comes to sex. Men who watch porn may think they should be able to pound away in their hapless girl's vagina until she comes in a screaming orgasm. Women may think they should be able to have five orgasm in a row as soon as a penis appears anywhere near their vagina! The truth, of course, is very different - most men experience premature ejaculation, at least some of the time, when they have sex, especially in certain positions like rear entry, while most women never come during vaginal intercourse.
(Watching porn can give us all a very
distorted view of what sex is really like. For example, it's not normal to
finish a bout of sex by withdrawing from your girl's vagina and
ejaculating over her face. Yet this is what many teenage boys are learning
about sex as they watch internet porn.)
Similarly, most men ejaculate within
three minutes of penetrating their partner. This was first demonstrated by
Alfred Kinsey in 1958, but nothing has change since, as a survey by the
German University at Kohn
After her enters her, the man shifts his body up so that his penis enters her vagina from a more acute angle. The bottom of the shaft of his penis, where it enters his body, will then be pressed against the general area of her clitoris. He doesn't then thrust; it's more like he's lying on her as the couple rock their bodies against each other. With a gentle motion that massages his penis in her vagina and stimulates her clitoris, it's not hard to time the movements so that the couple reach orgasm together. If the man needs to know how to control premature ejaculation, then the best position for sex is woman on top - he is prevented from making deep thrusting movements, which speed up ejaculation, and he can relax all his muscles to aid in slowing down his arrival at the point of no return.
sexy variation, the woman can lie on the man, in which case the whole
position is effectively reversed.
Another great position for orgasm during sex is rear entry. In this position, there is plenty of opportunity for either the man or the woman to play with her clitoris until she comes. The only problem here might be that men find this position so stimulating, they tend to come very quickly. Mind you, he can always stop moving while she catches up with him, so simultaneous orgasm should still be possible.
Perhaps the best of all positions for female orgasm is side by side sex. This is a romantic position, one which provides the man with much less stimulation, so he can last longer, and which at the same time allows either him or her to play with her clitoris so that she can get to orgasm. Because it's relaxed and romantic, sex in this position can feel much more loving and tender than, say, rear entry. All in all, it's a sex position which will provide all the romantics out there with a superb experience of feeling loving and then enjoying a shared orgasm!